"Last month, I wrote a column about how some of us are waiting for an apology that's not about to come. The advice I shared was to talk through it with a friend, pray and move on.

That inspired this from Judith (not her real name), who e-mailed: 'My sister misinterpreted something said between me and another sister. No matter what we said or how we explained what we said, she wanted to believe otherwise. This happened several years ago.'"