"I received an email from a man who asked a very particular question. He is a Christian, divorced, and in his forties. He met a Christian woman who seems to be an answer to prayer. Over time they have fallen in love and hope to get married eventually. But they can't marry right now because of financial reasons. Meanwhile they have started having sex together. He used the term 'being intimate' to describe it. 'We have been intimate and are feeling guilty that we DON’T feel convicted by the Holy Spirit that it has been wrong.'"