"The Right Kind of Fear Brings Confidence

In what do Americans typically believe children find refuge and security: a healthy self-image, self-worth, self-confidence, high self-esteem, accomplishments, or innate talents? The list is literally endless. In our individualistic and self-focused culture, children are continually bombarded with the message that they hold great significance in the universe, and must therefore believe in their significance so that they may reach their ultimate potential as human beings. Even the popular Christian animated series featuring very cute and alluring vegetables consistently sends out the message to children, 'You are special'. While children are certainly special to parents and family, and should be treated as such, parents are wise to recognize the dangers of the cultural 'You are Special' message, and its potential to foster a deep sense of self-centeredness, even narcissism. With such a realization, parents also need biblical alternatives that will ultimately point their little ones to God as the center of all things."